Aren’t your uncles Chris and Ralph always telling you to be careful when/where and how you kink? Time and again, you’ll hear us lecture about safety, hygiene, and discretion (and lube, lots and lots of lube). I just read a story that bubbles forth all kinds of cautions.
Let me share…
As many young women have done and will continue to do, Redditor ThrowawayRA7482 was working as an online dominatrix. This 19-year-old specializes in financial domination, something she started hoping to make extra college money but a job that slowly became a full-time gig for her. For those of you who do not know or have never opened your wallet or purse to this particular kink, the dom in question makes demands on their sub for money, pure and simple. The ‘servitude’ here is in the sub surrendering their hard-earned cash when ordered to do so and even, in the case of Redditor ThrowawayRA7482 and the one client she got in trouble with, making the man forgo vacations with his family, and other adjustments. The problem here in this one case that got Red in trouble is that a man she was domming was a family friend she had known for years. The man’s wife got her hands on her husband’s phone, found his conversations with his dom (please people, stay vigilant in erasing your messages!) and recognized Redditor from her profile. Redditor then had her parents calling her, obviously upset for a multitude of reasons.
Knowing the girl well before she was of legal age then engaging her as your pro dom (it seems though when she was of legal age) makes all this ‘don’t dom where you eat’ mess even ickier. But for men (and women) who might enjoy this kink (and really, to each his own when it comes to kinks, online or off, though this one can get costly!), for the ladies (and men) who dom there subs any which way, there is a lot to consider in this cautionary tale. All morality aside—and you know we never male moral judgments on our podcast—one needs to be careful with what puts ‘out there,’ these days, whether providing a service or partaking of one (and it doesn’t even need to be a sexual service). And trying to keep secrets from those you live with, if your secrets include changes in your lifestyle…well….good luck with that!
Please, listen to your wise old uncles Chris and Ralph…be careful out there.
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